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Dr. John Álvarez

The practice most men ignore—but need.

Published 9 days ago • 1 min read

Accepting life as it is. Not how you want it to be.

👌🏽😂 Why Accepting Difficulties Makes Life Easier | Eckhart Tolle (12:41)

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What I’ve learned from years of practicing meditation is simple: it doesn’t make you flashy or fearless. It gives you something better—the ability to meet reality as it is, without being tossed around by your thoughts, emotions, or external pressures. That’s the root of true confidence—and it’s something any man can cultivate.

🎧 My Weekly Audio: True confidence comes from Meditation (8:14)

Research Note:

  • Mindfulness meditation significantly reduces anxiety, depression, and emotional reactivity, improving emotional regulation.
    ​PMC​
  • Meditation supports structural and functional growth in the prefrontal cortex—key for decision-making, attention, and self-control. It also helps quiet the amygdala, the brain’s stress center.
    ​PMC​Verywel Mind​
  • Even short-term meditation training boosts resilience and strengthens the neural connection between the emotion center (amygdala) and regulation hub (vmPFC), improving how you handle stress.
    ​PMC​

3 Thoughts

  1. Confidence isn’t about control or proving yourself—it’s about facing life as it is, with clarity. Meditation trains you to sit with discomfort without reacting impulsively.
  2. When you practice meditation regularly, you learn to notice stress, fear, and doubt without letting them dictate your actions. That calm awareness translates into steady confidence at work, in relationships, and in life.
  3. Real strength comes from being grounded in yourself, not from pushing harder or pretending nothing affects you. Meditation gives you that internal anchor.

2 Quotes

“It is in the nature of things that joy arises in a person free from remorse.” —The Buddha (from the Cetana Sutta, of the Anguttara Nikaya)
“Meditation is not a matter of trying to achieve ecstasy, spiritual bliss, or tranquility, nor is it attempting to be a better person. It is simply the creation of a space in which we are able to expose and undo our neurotic games, our self-deceptions, our hidden fears and hopes.” — Chögyam Trungpa ​

1 Question

Meditation trains you to face life as i, not how you want it to be.

What’s one situation right now you could stop resisting—and meet with calm, steady presence?

If you have a question about meditation, reply here. If your question is selected, I will answer it (informally) and post it in the next newsletter.

Cheers,

— Dr. John Álvarez

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